The Karmic influence of making Love
- inesfariamateus
- Jun 30, 2024
- 6 min read
Updated: Jul 27, 2024
It's been known in Tantra wisdom that energy connects men and women for 7 years when they make love. You're bound energetically and emotionally. Unfortunately, sometimes these energies do not honour you but are still stored in your Yoni.
Let's dive deeply into this crucial subject that sadly our mothers (or most of them) never taught us. This article has the following topics:
1.The first kiss is wise
A special edition of the Scientific American Mind magazine focused on kissing and neuroscience studies. A study confirmed that the extent to which partners enjoy kissing one another might be a sign of compatibility. In our first kiss, the chemistry in our bodies, which is very wise, will already know how much we both are aligned, for how long we'll be together, if there's going to be sex or if we'll have kids.
Everything is determinant in that first kiss. Of course, we are not consciously aware of that cascade of information.
2. Where's the Learning experience?
Love is an addictive drug that craves bounding and some connections are meant to solve karmic imbalances.
Sometimes, people are together to become aware of some important life lesson. That's why it's crucial to identify the learning experience from the relationship. From time to time, the fling is meant to be a short encounter, other times people are meant to deeply connect for a longer period.
It does not matter if you were together for 1 day or 10 years. There's always a lesson and many layers of possible wisdom. We just need to be present and pay attention.
3. Think before you act
A lot is going on when we intimately connect with someone. Not only chemically, but also through our chakra system.
Fluids, emotions, triggers, energy and past lives are shared. Whether it may serve you or not, this deeply influences you.
This is why it is indispensable to evaluate your physical encounters objectively and mindfully. Even if there are no romantic feelings involved, there should always be a great level of maturity, trust and respect between partners.
As a spiritual being, strictly physical encounters should be avoided, such as one-night stands (ONS).
When you consciously decide to engage in lovemaking with a new partner, I would always recommend that you not only connect through the genitals but also include your heart and spirituality. This is the tantra way.
I'm not saying that sex should always be between two beings that deeply love each other. However, as conscious beings, we should choose wisely to whom we open ourselves.
if the connection is purely physical, you'll carry unnecessary energies deeply rooted in your subconscious. even if there's no romantic love, choose partners:
with higher levels of consciousness, empathy, and respect
that nourish your soul while you share a moment
that care for your pleasure
that know how crucial after-sex care is.
Who knows? Maybe this partner will successfully become your reliable friend affair...
4. The Reliable Casual Partner, aka great friends with benefits
It is fundamental in Tantra that you meet more deeply your partner, recognize their intentions and try to understand what is the learning experience behind that brief (or long) relationship.
In a perfect world, highly intelligent and conscious humans would create a non-superficial bond, respectfully share intimacy, and mindfully honour their partner with their full presence and care.
As highly sexual beings who make love not only for procreation, and because you may not find yourself constantly in a romantic stable relationship, I highly recommend having a secure casual partner. Someone with whom you have a mutually agreed-upon, reliable, and casual relationship. A high-quality one, a good friend with whom you feel respected and cherished. Any arrangement where there's trust and stability.
Even if there are no romantic feelings involved, the basis of any relationship should be friendship.
I can't stress this enough: even if there are no romantic feelings involved, the foundation of any relationship should be friendship. How can you have a "friend with benefits" if you're not friends? It's in the name for god's sake!!
So my dear sister, forget about those nasty ONS and get yourself a little (or big) treat.
Imagine... having a stable partner - or semi-stable, depending on the months - for hot encounters and cuddling without the responsibilities and dilemmas of a relationship. And obviously at the simple and effective distance of a phone call, when you need it, when you want it! Remember to be meaningfully involved in the present moment, while giving and receiving pleasure.
Let me know in the comments if you would like me to write an article on "How to find a reliable casual partner and its Dos and Don'ts". And learn how to go from no sex (or miserable ONS) to fulfilling lovemaking experiences.
5. Avoid Unwanted Karmic influence
The more you can develop your sensitivity to what kind of connection you are experiencing with that person, the better it will serve you.
In Tantra, to minimize the Karmic Influence, it is always recommended to use a condom to prevent fluid exchange: chemical contact through male and female ejaculation.
"When you perceive that you will not connect deeply with someone, then it's going to be wise to use a condom. This way you don't engage so profoundly with that person on an energetic and emotional level." - said my Tantra master Ma Ananda Sarita during a class.
Using a condom protects you, to a certain extent, from fluid and karmic bonding - and STDs of course. Fluids carry so much information... this is extremely powerful. Evidently, if you're a spiritual being, you'll notice it even more: in your daily life response, well-being, mood, energy, sleep, appetite, senses, mindset, and so much more.
However, if you and your partner mindfully understand you would like to go deeper in your relationship, both should do a complete STD test.
Sister, there are more than 20 nasty STDs so make sure you test not only for HIV but for at least the top 10 Unglorious Bastards: HIV, Herpes, HPV, Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis, Trichomonas vaginalis, Hepatitis, Mycoplasma, Ureaplasma. Get yourself informed, please! At least once a year!
If it is 100% safe, then allow the next level of contact and bonding. Enjoy your journey together safely!
6. Clean old and stagnant energy from your Yoni
All right! But what if mistakes were already made? What if I did not have a choice? Well, sister, here are the two opposites in the spectrum of trauma:
Unconscious trauma: you had sexual partners who did not have the best intentions and did not care for you as the beautiful goddess you are. You are probably not conscious of the disrespectfulness and immaturity of these partners. Or the impact they had on your mental, emotional, energetic and sexual well-being.
Severe conscious trauma: sexual assault
Watch the knowledgeable psychiatrist Bessel Kolk talking about Trauma, a subject he has been studying for over 50 years.
I recommend the following healing therapies:
Yoni steaming
Yoni egg healing exercises
Yoni healing massage
Guided meditation for sexual well-being
Besides the suggested therapies, I would recommend watching the following video. You'll be amazed!
Even though I am certified in Holistic Sexual Wellness, I am not specialized in deep severe Trauma, and I do not intend to be. So in that case, I recommend finding a trusted holistic Doctor and establishing a support system. However, I do not see any contraindications in additionally using holistic healing therapies, as a complement. Ask your trusted doctor what he thinks about it for your specific situation.
In any case, the wounds are not your fault, but the healing is your responsibility.
I hope this article will inspire you to make more conscious decisions about future partners. Besides, the suggested therapies are intended to do a complete physical detox of your yoni, womb and the rest of your reproductive system, as well as do an energetic cleanse.
PS: In September 2024, we will be learning and applying these holistic therapies in our women's circles. Book your discovery call with me to know more details about the Journey in Morocco.
Warm hugs,
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